by Scott Mautz
What if I told you that unleashing success starts with realizing how successful you already are?
It’s true. As a leadership and success expert I get asked a lot about “keys to success.” My first response is always: “Before you start changing, adding, or subtracting, spend some time appreciating.”
Success is more than just how much money you make, what job title you’ve achieved, or what accomplishments you’ve stacked up. There’s nothing wrong with any of that, but true success is broader. It’s about the kind of life you’re living and who you’ve chosen to become.
When you think about success in a more holistic way, it requires resilience, confidence, and other aspects of mental strength I talk about in depth in my recent book, “The Mentally Strong Leader.”
A true measure of success requires introspection on a set of questions beyond the typical “how much” and “how high” metrics. If you can answer “yes” to the following six questions, you’re more successful — right now — than you may have realized.
1. Do you live your values?
The little things you do every day exemplify who you are. The little impressions you make leave a big, permanent impression. The question is: Do you choose to behave in line with your values? For example, if a core value is kindness, are you consistently kind, even when it’s hard?
Intentionally living your values shows you’re centered and disciplined, and both are forms of success. Doing this is no small feat — it’s not easy to clearly articulate your values, let alone intentionally live them.
If you’d like to start by articulating your values, there’s an exercise in “The Mentally Strong Leader” to help you do just that.